If you’re looking for support for your tween, teen or young adult son, you’ve come to the right place!

Why Coaching Young Men?

We all agree that our family is the most important thing in our life, but sadly when it comes to the adolescent years for our kids, most parents just wing it. We do the best we can each day, but juggling Gen Z kids, a busy work schedule, and everything else that life has thrown our way has us exhausted and treading water. The world has also changed so quickly with the advancement of technology that many feel like they can’t keep up with the everchanging landscape that is providing so many obstacles for our sons. This is the moment Jerry McGuire would step in and say, "help me help you!" For the last 25 years my life has been dedicated to helping tweens, teens, college students and their families. In that time, I've coached a handful of state championship teams, spoken at schools, universities, camps and conferences. My time as a coach, educator, community leader and mentor to thousands of students has taught me that there is a better way to support and inspire our children. It's time to stop winging it and start having a plan to ensure that your child has the best opportunities available for this one and only run through adolescence.

My name is Zac Lambrecht and I’m a Certified Life Coach that specializes in providing guidance and support to young men and their parents during the crucial stages of adolescence and early adulthood. My adult life has been spent pouring into young men, and I have noticed some alarming trends. In my community the opportunities for assistance with academic and athletic needs are prevalent. Most schools have lists of tutors for every subject in every grade. Our college bound students have numerous resources for one-on-one ACT and SAT prep, and the good coaches stay full year-round. In athletics, the resources are even more plentiful. As a five-time state championship coach my athletes had resources all around them for private skills coaching, strength training and nutritional help. When it comes to the struggles of life (motivation, confidence, avoiding pitfalls, and having “the talks”), many young men and their parents feel alone on this journey. it doesn’t have to be that way, and I’d love to be a resource for your family. In the last 20 years the life coaching space has exploded, and I have joined the profession to positively impact as many young men and families as I can!

 The Power of a Life Coach
As young men navigate the complex journey of growing up, they often exhibit resistance to listening to their parents. So, the question becomes, who do you want pouring into your sons?

In my role as a life coach and mentor, I will provide-

  • Parents have a unique and significant role in their children's lives. However, the familiarity of this relationship can sometimes hinder effective communication. Boys may feel that their parents can't comprehend their struggles, or that each encounter turns into another sermon. In contrast, a life coach brings a fresh perspective to the table. As a neutral and objective party, a life coach can see the bigger picture, allowing them to provide insights and advice that resonates with kids in a way that might not be received by their parents.

  • In the parent-child relationship, fear of judgment or discipline can often lead to children being selective about the information they share with their parents. Sometimes, they may fear disappointing or angering them. On the contrary, a life coach offers a safe and non-judgmental space for kids to express their thoughts, fears, and aspirations openly. This freedom to be vulnerable nurtures trust and fosters a real connection, enabling the life coach to offer guidance and support tailored to the child's unique needs.

  • While parents bring a wealth of love and care to their children, they may not always possess the specialized expertise to address all kinds of challenges and provide suitable guidance. Life coaches, on the other hand, are professionals who have undergone training and possess knowledge in areas such as goal-setting, personal development, self-confidence, and motivation. This specialized expertise equips life coaches with a diverse toolbox to empower children to navigate through life successfully. I have been in the world of adolescent boys for over 20 years and am eager to use my experience to help your son build a foundation that can weather any storm.

  • Life coaches focus on empowering individuals to make decisions, set goals, and take actions that align with their true selves. This empowerment-oriented approach resonates with kids who are eager to shape their own lives and make a meaningful impact. Instead of dictating and controlling, life coaches encourage children to uncover their passions, identify their strengths, and establish a vision for their future. This sense of ownership over their growth and development is instrumental in inspiring children to listen to and internalize the guidance provided by life coaches.

  • Confidentiality plays a crucial role in the relationship between a life coach and a young person. Understanding that personal matters shared will remain strictly between them can help children feel at ease when discussing sensitive topics or seeking advice. Unlike with parents, who often have a vested interest in their child's choices, life coaches commit to maintaining confidentiality, ensuring that children can freely discuss their concerns knowing that their privacy will be respected, except in a situation where such confidentiality would violate the law such as harm to self or others.

  • While children's resistance to listening to their parents can sometimes be frustrating, the emergence of life coaches as trusted mentors and guides offers a positive alternative. The fresh perspective, safe environment, specialized expertise, emphasis on personal empowerment, and commitment to confidentiality provided by life coaches make them uniquely positioned to engage with kids effectively. By embracing this support, young people are empowered to navigate life's challenges, discover their true potential, and ultimately thrive in all aspects of their lives.

Testimonials

“Zac played a key role in my development throughout my teen years and into adulthood where he still plays a role today. He is patient and willing to listen under any circumstance, while also speaking with passion and confidence at the right times. He takes the time needed to understand where you are in life, then through natural conversation asks the necessary questions to help you move forward. He has been invested in my life, success, and happiness since our first meeting.”

— Steven C.

“I first met Zac during my early years of high school, and he was someone I looked up to from the very beginning. My relationship with Zac really took off once he started leading a study at my house every Sunday night for my classmates and I, which consisted of about fifteen guys. Getting together every Sunday night is still one of my fondest high school memories and means more to me than words could ever express. I not only got to spend time with some of my best friends outside of school, but also took big steps forward that I still fall back on today. When I got married almost three years ago, my wife and I needed someone to take part in officiating our wedding and Zac came to mind immediately because of the huge impact he has had on my life. Zac’s upstanding character is contagious to be around, and I am fortunate enough to have been blessed with his friendship over the years.”

— Chris E.

“Zac has dedicated his life to serving the youth and his dedication changed my life. He could relate and connect with all of us. He was a true light in all of our lives and my best memories of high school were with him. I have laughed, cried, been silly, serious, and everything in between with Zac. It was not until I was older that I fully comprehended how much time he poured into my life. Every single day he was the same. He was always kind, patient, loving, and most of all gracious, as he put all of our needs before his. Zac’s leadership is unique. He is quick to listen, slow to become angry, and very patient. He has always made time for me. He has always encouraged me. Eighteen years later and he is still there for me.”

— Brett D.

“There’s a million positive things I could say about Zac, but the first that comes to mind is how selfless he is. Zac would stop anything he’s doing if I needed something from him. Zac puts the future and well being of the young men he leads over any monetary or materialistic things and that is an amazing quality. Zac is the one of the most genuine guys I’ve ever met. I’m blessed to have Zac when I need advice and even more so to call him a friend.”

— Wesley H.

I had the good fortune to meet Zac Lambrecht at a middle school event when I was in 6th grade. In the moment, I thought Zac was just a cool older guy who loved to hear me talk about myself. However, looking back Zac was a major and vital male role model in my life. Throughout my early and late teenager years, Zac invested time and energy to be an example of a male leader.

Like most young competitive male teenagers, I was obsessed with achieving, specifically in athletics. Zac was one of the first people who embraced my competitive aspirations but also helped me realize that my identity cannot be from performance in athletics. He exemplified how to be an avid competitor while also having a Christ and Grace-centered identity. Right now, as a medical student, I still fight against a performance centered identity. However, I still can reflect on Zac’s example as well as our conversations that help me stay grounded.

Zac also showed me how to be humble and servant-driven leader for my family. He explained how to have intentional conversations with either your spouse or girlfriend. We discussed values and traits to look for when potentially considering marriage. We had countless honest and intentional conversations about the rewards and challenges of marital relationships. As a new husband myself, I still refer to how he leads his family and conversations we had.

— Wheeler B.

“I had the pleasure of being on the St. Paul’s golf team while Zac was the head coach. We had several great teams and had very high expectations. Zac did a tremendous job of showing us the right way to carry ourselves through life and through competition. Those were some of the most memorable years of my life and set a great precedent for the standards I hold myself to today.”

— Will M.